She's appreciated if
She is mute, doesn't spill truth
She obeys, respects your desires
She cares, labors herself days and nights 24*7 without complaints
She be a "female"
In a way when she knows her limits,
Boundaries and rules may be set by you! She be
Under your control as puppet!
And still
She's being objectified, mocked, disrespected, optioned!
Gone are the years when female infanticides happened, while early abortions are still ongoing.
Earlier when people realized howsoever, chose burdening selves by giving births, victimized their girls for early marriages, caged them within societal norms.
They've been often told how "A girl" should be!
From being characterized to getting judged!
When to laugh, when to sit, when to cry, when to shy, when to shut!
It leaves my heart heavy when not someone, but her mother grows her up this way and still whenever she chose herself over everything, she's being defined: sometimes arrogant, sometimes rude, and mostly characterless!
Women in other words: "A human made to compromise and sacrifice"
And society call it adjustments!
God, somebody please find them the words in dictionary- Adjustment; Compromise; Sacrifice and help them understand the difference, especially their intensity!
Such a hypocrisy people lead especially women. I see them saying "Aurat hi aurat ki dushmann hoti hai" and then they end up being Dushmann. They know how they've led their lives, but they also know how to make their upcoming female generations continue their legacy. Deep dug in the society, discrimination is sown before crop matures for harvesting.
Although breeze has taken a turn and the weather has changed somewhat, yet still!
Now this is for you...
To all the women here,
You are not weak, you don't need permission
You are self reliant and capable
You are not obligated to make everyone happy
You are also a human with emotions
You don't need to be dependent
You are here to follow your dreams and yes,
Its your responsibility to keep yourself happy. So,
| Go out. Spread your wings. Fly |
